Just letting you know things are a bit chaotic in my head and heart right now, but I'm ok. After another terrible x-mas I made a decision, but I will write more when things develop a little, I'm still figuring out how to do what I have to do. Yes, I mean breaking up with Josh.
xoxo
Andrea
finally. i know it was a hard decision but seriously it is 4 the best.it hasnt nothing to do with poker. he is just a degen gambler like TBC that refuses to accept the fact that to make a living at poker is very difficult. gl in the future, kid
ReplyDeleteGotta try and find the less hard way to do it though... him having no house, car, or money isn't helpful at all :(
Deletesolution. get a job or he can pull money out of poker acct. he is an adult, isnt he?
Deletewell lucky me on the timing of checking this blog...
ReplyDeletebeen there done that. severe ties as much as you can in a peaceful and amicable way. don't look back. it's going to be painful but time will heal the pain.
on a good note, this experience will help you appreciate what is best for you in the future when you date again. that is the beauty of a failed relationship. You get to step back and assess the lessons learned afterwards (hard to do when you are still in the middle of it). I needed every one of my failed relationships in order to help me realize how good I have it now with my wife. It also helped me realize what changes I needed to make in myself. good luck!
I can't wait to go through this and start a new life. I didn't even break up yet and I already feel very bad. I'm really afraid of how the break up will go.
DeleteIf you're already making negative connotations towards how great and different your life will be without josh before you even break up with him, you're already lessening the odds of it even happening.
DeleteJosh is a big boy with an answer for every problem you've ever thrown at him, so it's time to put on his big boy pants and be a self sufficient adult. That part is up to him, you can't hold his hand through it as it doesn't help either of you.
You go girl! Maybe a terrible Christmas was better than a lonely Christmas. Now it's time for some tough love to help little Josh grow up to be a man.
ReplyDeleteYou are procrastinating because it is hard. Maybe you can try a small step, like, ummm, stop having sex with Josh?
DeleteHope you go through it andrea, its best for you to leave that degenerate. Josh does not love you or he would try harder. Josh would work any job available to make things work he refuses to get off his lazy ass. Best of luck in the future.
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